Sex is something that can be great. But, when you add music into the equation, you put on a totally new level. Whether you are engaging in some solo loving, or are having sex with a partner, music is a great addition that can change the entire experience in a positive way. Not to mention, you turn that song into something memorable, so every time you heart it, you will instantly be brought back to that amazing night. We have come up with a list of the best songs to have sex to.

Brian McKnigt – What’s My Name. Let me just say one thing; any of Brian McKnight’s songs are great for setting the right mood, but this sexy ballad is one of our favorites.

Sleep Brown – Till (You Legs Start Shaking). With a quick glance at lyrics such as, ‘I’m on top of you… you are under me’, it is not hard to see why this is a great song to play during our passionate lovemaking session.

The Kings of Leon – Sex is on Fire. The music behind the lyrics as well as the lyrics themselves make this a great sex song.

Usher – Love in This Club. This song has a great rhythm to set the pace for a great lovemaking session while the lyrics just add to the passion you are already feeling.

Marvin Gaye – Sexual Healing. This song is famous, and tops the charts of many lists of songs to play during sex.

Next – Too Close. Although this is an oldie, it is and always will be a goodie. The entire song puts you in the mood to get close, and of course, make love.

Justin Timberlake – What Goes Around.. Comes Around. Yes, this songs is all about deceit and cheating, but the music and the beat is perfect for a perfect sex session.

Nickelback – S.E.X. This is one of my personal mood setting songs. Once I play it, I feel sexy and just ready to have fun.

Mary J. Blige – I’m Going Down. Although this song is definitely not talking about ‘going down’, it is still a very sensual song because of its beat.

Fiona Apple – Criminal. Whenever I listen to this song I feel like I want to be a bad, bad girl, which is exactly that state-of-mind I need to be in before getting freaky.

J. Holiday – Bed. This song gives new meaning to getting tucked in, and will definitely set the right mood for your sex session.

R. Kelly – Bump and Grind. R. Kelly is infamous for being quite the pervert, but when we are talking about sex, there is a need for perviness. The lyrics in this song, along with the music will be just right.

The Isley Brothers – Between the Sheets. Another oldie that has remained on all lists for bedroom music. This is an example of a perfect song to make sweet, passionate love between the sheets to.

No matter if you use our songs, or find your own, music should be part of everyone’s lovemaking routine. It sets the mood, relaxes you, and ultimately gives you an incredible sex session.

Kissing. Most people have their first real kiss between the ages of eight and twelve. But, it is not until we get older, do we learn what a real kiss is, what it means, and the power behind it. Here are some interesting facts about kissing our team found.

• Research shows that the preferential act of tipping our heads slightly the right develops while we are inside our mother’s womb.

• When you pucker your lips to kiss someone, you are using muscles. The biggest muscle used is the orbicularis oris.

• A woman is capable of reaching an orgasm from just kissing. (Try it out!)

• The Kama Sutra defined thirty different types of kissing.

• There are a hundred times more nerve endings in your lips, than in your fingertips.

• Based on a poll, Cosmo states, ‘forty percent of men say that a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready for sex’.

• According to body language expert Tony Reiman, ‘if your guy routinely only gives you a quick kiss on the cheek when saying good-bye, it could be that he is guarded and doesn’t emote easily’.

• Kissing the easy if very arousing for anyone. The best way to do this for your man is to suck and nibble his earlobe. Add some breathing for an enhanced effect.

• A study was conducted at the University at Albany, which showed ‘men initiate an open-mouthed kiss to pass libido-boosting testosterone to their partners’

• Women find kissing as having a greater importance in judging a relationship, or deciding whether to have sex. On the flipside, men are twice as likely to have intercourse with a woman regardless of whether or not she is a bad kisser.

• There is actually a biological, physical effect caused by kissing. A passionate kiss elevates blood pressure, and causes the rate of your heartbeat to rise. This gets you more aroused, and helps you climax.

• According to a Cosmo poll, younger women are more open to experimenting with the same sex. ‘Fifty-four percent of women between the ages of eighteen and twenty-four say they have kissed a woman. With women in the twenty-five to forty-three year age group, that percentage drops to forty-three”.

• Kissing can aid in preventive care of wrinkles, because during kissing twenty-nine facial muscles are being used.

• According to U.S. Statistics, ‘a woman will kiss an average of eighty women before she gets married’.

• A kiss can burn anywhere between two and five calories. This depends on what type of kiss it is (i.e. closed-mouth, French).

• As per the rules of kissing, sixty-six percent of individuals will keep his or her eyes closed. Others find that gazing into each others eyes provides a more romantic experience.

I you know any interesting facts about kissing that we missed, feel free to leave a comment. We will add the best ones to our list on this site.

So, obviously it is not too hard to figure out that your guy wants to have sex since, most of the time, men have no issue letting you know. But, what if you could figure out before he lets you know? You could initiate it before he does, and let me tell you, men LOVE it when you take it upon yourself to start it. Janine Driver, author of You Say More Than You Think, helps us discover the signs that scream I want you NOW!

Look at his eyes. When your man gets turned on there is a biological change that occurs. Yes, blood rushes to his penis, and he becomes erect, but you may not be able to easily see this. However, you can tell he is aroused by looking at his eyes. When he gets in the mood, his pupils will dilate, meaning that black part in the middle of his eye will get bigger.

Where does he try to focus your eyes? As human beings, our eyes are drawn to things when certain things happen. For example, if I were to say ‘look!’, while pointing up, you would instantly look to where my hand is pointing. Well, men use this to influence your desire for them. They may place their hands on their thigh, or use their fingers and cuff their belt loops. Anything to get you to look at their crotch, and think about what is underneath.

He touches his nose. Yeah. This is an interesting one. And, of course, he may have a cold. But, a man who is horny will touch his nose a lot. According to the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, ‘the nerves in a guy’s nose and the nerves in his erectile tissue are linked’.

There is a change in his voice. According to a study conducted in 2010 by TS-SI, an individuals pitch will become lower when they are turned on. This may be because an effort is made to sound more seductive.

He will touch you. Well, of course, we already know when your man is turned on he will want to touch you, everywhere. But, according to a Cosmopolitan writer, ‘he will cup, or rub your shoulders’. Ruderman says, this is often a subconscious simulation of grabbing your breasts.

He hugs you in a certain way. Next time you and your man are hugging, pay attention to where he places his hands. Although most men will wrap their arms around your waist, there might be a slight different when he is turned on. Look to see if his hands rest on, or just about, your butt. This is a true signal of what he is in the mood for. You can also take this as a great opportunity to initiate some sexual activity.

No matter what way he tries to let you know he wants you, you try to, at least sometimes, be the one who starts. Men love it when you take it upon yourself, and show them how much you want them.

Now, we all have, either in our mind or written down on paper, a list of everything we want to accomplish or do in life. Whether it is to get a certain job, attain a masters degree in a certain field of study, or travel the world. Well, a great ‘list’ to have in addition to your ‘life list’ is a ‘sex list’; things you want to do, places you want to do them. We have come up with a list you can use. Feel free to comment on the ideas or add any we might have missed that are on your list. Also, a fun experiment is to see how many you have accomplished. And, if you feel like sharing, let us know, and share your experience.

• · Do something naughty in a department store
• · Join the mile high club
• · Do it on the beach
• · Have a roof top session
• · Do it in the rain
• · Play with a toy
• · Use toys with a partner
• · Phone sex
• · Have a threesome
• · Do something sexual with a member of the same sex
• · Have intercourse in water (i.e. a pool, the beach)
• · Tie someone up and/or be tied up yourself
• · Have sex while watching porn
• · Have sex next to another couple having sex
• · Play strip _____ (fill in the blank)
• · Use sex coupons
• · Sex in complete darkness
• · Sex with the lights on/during the day
• · Sex in front of a window where others can easily see
• · Do it in a restaurant
• · Role-play (with and without costumes)
• · Have a quickie
• · Use food products (i.e. whip cream, ice)
• · Sex with someone older and/or younger
• · Drunk, or influenced sex (one of my personal favorites!)
• · Webcam show
• · A romp in a car
• · Oral while driving
• · Pinned up against the wall sex
• · Do it in a bathroom stall
• · Teasing sex (with clothes on), although this doesn’t usually last long.
• · Sex in the woods
• · Sex with a man/woman with different hair colors (not all at once, hehe)
• · Spend an entire day having sex (of course, with small recovery breaks)
• · Spend an entire day masturbating
• · Have a sexual encounter with a variety of people from different ethnic backgrounds
• · Mutual masturbation
• · For men: join in a circle jerk
• · Do it with both, a circumcised and uncircumcised man
• · Accent! This can fit under an international encounter.
• · Experience a glory hole (either receiving, or giving, or both)
• · Steam it up in a sauna
• · Experience a golden shower
• · Record a sex session
• · Watch that recorded sex session (by yourself, and with your partner)
• · Intercourse without preheating the oven (no kissing)
• · Rough sex

So, how many out of these have you done? Feel free to add to this list. We will add your best suggestions here.

Do you want to know the real reason why porn stars are loved so much? Or, why your man enjoys a strip show every once in a while? I will say that, yes, the major reason is the fact that these women are in amazing physical shape, but it’s not just what they look like outside. It’s also because of how they feel inside about themselves. These women love themselves, and truly believe they are sexy. So, you may be wondering, ‘how is telling you this going to make YOU feel like a sexy porn star?’ Well, my response is simple, if you feel sexy, you will appear that way.  You’ll walk in a certain way, stand in a certain way, and act in a certain way; a way that will make men want you; the way they want those women. Here are some helpful tips to get you into that ‘I’m sexy’ kind of mood.

Workout. Well, not any workout. Although going to the gym, or for a quick run will make you feel good, we’re talking about a different kind of good. A great workout to make you feel sexy is one that puts emphasis on using your body in sensual ways. Some great ideas, which I personally love, are Carmen Electra’s Striptease and Julianne Hugh’s Just Dance. I love Carmen Electra’s chair dance, which is all about just letting that sexy beast out, while Julianne Hugh’s Just Dance provides a hair throwing, hips turnings, challenging dance routine.

Dress for your body type. Now, this is where you have to be honest with yourself, but not excessively critical. Wear clothes that accentuate your curves and best assets. For example, I know whenever I put on a slimming pair of sweat pants, my legs and butt look amazing. Add that with a nice top and push-up bra, and I am pretty set to go about my day, feeling and looking my very best. Now for those of you who have to wear a specific uniform, or outfit, you make can make sure you wear a nice thong, or maybe your favorite pair of silky lingerie. Just knowing how sexy you are underneath those clothes will definitely give you a confidence boost.

Masturbate. Besides getting extreme sexual satisfaction, you have the opportunity to completely let go and play out your own fantasy of being a porn star. Go all out! Toys, candles, music, maybe even a camera. Have fun and explore every inch of your body.

One thing that drives men wild, as I said, is confidence. So, in addition to these make sure you set yourself up with the belief that you are sexy. I know I, personally, look at my legs and my ass EVERYTIME I look in the mirror. The facts that I know these are my best features put me in the right state of mind to go about my day with complete confidence.